Suction cup dildos

How does a suction cup dildo work?

When you press the base down, you push out the air underneath it. The air pressure around it then holds the base against the surface. The wider and softer the suction cup, the more firmly it stays in place. That is why the base tells you more about how well a dildo will stay put than its length or brand. It only works as long as no air can get in under the rim, and a single hair, a bit of dust or a drop of lube is enough to make it let go.

A good surface is smooth, hard and airtight:

• Tiles, glass and mirrors These are the best surfaces, as long as they are clean and free of grease. That makes the bathroom the easiest place to start.
• Varnished wood, plastic and a smooth bath edge These work well when the surface is genuinely smooth. If it has a grain or texture, the dildo will hold for a shorter time.
• Fabric, mattresses, sofas and painted walls A suction cup will not hold here, so lay a smooth, sturdy board on top or simply use the dildo in your hand.

Which kinds of suction dildo can you get?

Almost every type of dildo comes with a suction base, so you choose by the sensation you are after. Should it look like a real penis, should it vibrate or thrust, or would you rather have something with a touch of fantasy? The table shows the main types side by side. How suction dildos compare with strap-on and thrusting models is covered in the types of dildos at a glance.

Fantasy suction dildos, such as the Raptor and the Orc from Hidden Desire, also appear among the tentacle dildos and other fantasy shapes. The Spiral Tease from Playhouse comes in sizes S to XL, with or without vibration.

What makes a good suction dildo?

• The base A wide, flat suction cup grips more firmly than a small one and is also steadier when you ride it.
• Length and girth The girth decides how full it feels more than the length does, so start with a size you already know. Help with choosing is in which dildo suits you. If you want more size, look at our huge dildos, long dildos and thick dildos. For a gentle start there are the small dildos.
• Material Silicone is non-porous and odourless. Silexpan, the material Silex-D uses, combines a firm core with a soft outer layer. PVC and TPE are flexible but more porous, so put a condom over the dildo if you share it.
• Firm or flexible A firm shaft stays upright when you ride it, while a flexible dildo bends with you and feels softer. A bendy model works better against the shower wall than when you sit on it, and you will find them among the soft dildos.
• Colour Realistic models come in different skin tones. If you are looking for a black suction cup dildo, also take a look at our black dildos.
• Extra features An electric suction dildo vibrates or thrusts. Some models can even squirt, such as the Foreskin Squirting Dildo from ToyJoy among the ejaculating dildos.

How do you use a suction dildo?

1. Clean the base and the surface Wipe both, so there is no dust or hair under the rim. A drop of water on the rim can help, but lube under the rim does the opposite.
2. Press it down firmly Push from the centre towards the edge so that all the air escapes. Then give it a gentle tug to check that it is stuck.
3. Choose your position On the floor or a chair you sit on it and control the depth and pace yourself. Against the shower wall or a mirror, you can play standing up or on your hands and knees.
4. Use plenty of lube Apply it to the dildo rather than the base, and with silicone toys choose a water based lubricant.
5. Take your time Lower yourself slowly and stop if anything hurts. To remove the dildo, lift the edge of the suction cup instead of pulling on the shaft.

Can you use a suction cup dildo for anal play?

Yes, and with an anal suction dildo you decide exactly how deep and how fast you go. The suction base is wide, so the dildo cannot slip in further than the shaft. Start with a slim, smooth shaft and use a thicker anal lube, because the anus does not make its own moisture. Never switch from anal to vaginal play without cleaning the dildo first. If you want a shape that tapers especially for anal play, browse our anal dildos.

Will a suction dildo fit in a harness or on a machine?

Many dildos with a suction cup fit in an O-ring harness, because the base holds the dildo in place. Do check on the product page that the model is suitable as a strap-on. You can pick a harness from our strap on harnesses, or go for a complete set among the strap ons. Some sex machines use a suction cup adapter, so you can mount an ordinary suction dildo on the arm. The dildo machines page tells you which connector fits.

How do you clean a suction cup dildo?

Wash your dildo after every use with lukewarm water and a mild soap or a sex toy cleaner. Do not forget the underside of the suction cup, and let it air dry. Store the dildo upright or lying flat, never with the base folded. Keep different materials apart, because PVC and TPE can damage silicone when they touch for a long time.

For a dildo without a suction cup, browse all our dildos. Discounted models are listed on the dildo sale page.

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